Say it when you feel that way
Say it when you mean it…
Do not hold on to your feelings
about someone or choke on them
Just because you are afraid of
Saying “I love you”, first or
worse, afraid of rejection.
There is no precise formula to say
I love you.
Not everyone develops love or
expresses it at the same time
It’s more of a gradual process
and a combination of different aspects
in some people and happens fast for others.
Bringing into consideration the part played
For some people, timing is more important than
honesty and self disclosure. They follow through
a series of calculations and more to determine
when to declare love to a potential partner,
also taking into perspective the timing for a reciprocal
answer to the declaration – forgetting that there are different
paces at which love develops in everyone.
The perception that a man should be the one to say it first-
And that there should be a time frame totally accepted in
declaring love to a potential partner makes it worse
It doesn’t matter who says it first,
where they say it, or when they say it –
As long as it is from the heart.
Perceived potential, cannot perceive it’s inevitable
What matters is the profundity of your relationship.
Don’t wait for the right time to tell him how you feel
Don’t determine a period befitting your declaration
of love for her…
Much as it makes sense sometimes to wait, allowing a period
for the relationship to grow, it makes no sense being a slave
Say it when it feels right
Express your feelings as they come…
Do not be afraid to rejection –
Love is a beautiful thing…
Doesn’t matter who says I love you first,
Just say it.